Mentee Mentorship Program Best Practices
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Provide your mentor with feedback. It can be very rewarding and satisfying to mentor and help a protégé to achieve his or her personal, professional, or educational goals. Mentors often don’t get feedback about the impact that they are having.
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if you do follow a suggestion given by your mentor, then let him or her know how it worked out or what you did or what you learned
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acknowledge the advice your mentor gave you and its impact on you
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let them know about your accomplishments and how they have contributed to your success
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let them know when you need help
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share updates about successes, challenges, and milestones
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if you’re comfortable, share updates about things not working in life and relationships
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talk about your relationship
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share examples of your work
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celebrate life events together
2. Show your mentor respect for their time, interest, and expertise
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call or email regularly to check in and update the prospective mentor on topics related to your initial meeting and your goals
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show interest or enthusiasm in your mentor’s activities and interests
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be an active listener and ask questions
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schedule a regular meeting
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share more about your career, academic, and/or personal goals
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ask for advice, maybe even take notes and follow-up with suggestions
3. General tips
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provide mentor with up-to-date contact information, particularly if you move or change your email address or phone number
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provide mentor with background information about you including your accomplishments, interests, hobbies, resources, life experiences, and challenges
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send periodic emails to check in with their mentor
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share updates
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show up and be on time for meetings and end meetings on time, be respectful of their time
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if an emergency comes up and you can’t meet, then let your mentor know in advance
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be respectful of your mentor’s time, interest, and opinions
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show gratitude and appreciation (say “thank you”) and ask about how they are doing
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actively participate in decision-making, especially about how you will spend your time together let them know how they have helped you
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talk through major decisions with them